
My dad's favorite holiday was Easter. It was
not entirely for religious purposes that my dad loved this holiday. In
fact, I never really realized that it was his favorite until the year I
turned 15. Since my birthday is the last day of March, Easter
occasionally falls on my birthday. Again, it's not why my dad
favored the holiday, but as I grew up, I began to anticipate
celebrating Easter because it was sometimes near my birthday, but more
so because my father loved the holiday.
For my dad, Easter was about the secular traditions
that came with the holiday. He loved to dye Easter eggs and make what he called
"cascarones". Those were the dyed eggshells that he filled with
tissue paper confetti that could then be slammed on someone's
head. But first, you had to find them. That tradition brought my
dad alot of favorite memories when he was a kid since he was somewhat the practical joker. My dad could be
described as goof or one who marched to a different drummer, so any
chance to have fun and break the rules made for a good memory for
Dad. He just loved a good Easter egg hunt and then breaking the cascarones on someone's head..

When my brother and I were little, he tried to pass
along his love for hunting for the "cascarones". Some years, we
had to make do with just dyed hard-boiled eggs because we hadn't saved
up the empty eggshells. But either way, my dad loved to set up the
table to dye the eggs with my brother and me. And then, he would
go out into the yard and hide them. He relished watching me and
my younger brother, Ernesto rummaging around the yard looking for his
hidden treasures.
As we grew older, the thrill of the hunt faded for me and my
brother. The idea of hunting for hard-boiled eggs that had been sitting outside turned my
stomach as they were not my favorite snack. Chocolate held a
bigger draw. Plus, it just seemed so juvenile to be out looking
for hidden eggs. That was for little kids who still believed in the Easter Bunny. We were getting much to big for that. So
as things go, my brother and I told my dad in so many words, "forget
it. We are not wasting our time looking for stupid eggs." Dad
never listened and every Easter, he would dye the eggs anyway and and
hide them outside.
When I was 15, I decided that I was done with that stupid tradition. I remember
telling Dad, enough is enough. I refuse to go out and look for
eggs. They are icky and I'm too old to be looking for Easter
eggs. My dad quietly continued to dye the eggs by himself the day before Easter and
said fine, if that's how you feel, no problem.
I'll never forget that Easter Sunday. I had
slept in a little and so had my brother. Dad was sitting in the
living room. When we were both up, he announced that he had once
again hidden the eggs outside. I looked at my brother and then at
Dad and reminded him that we were both too old to go looking for Easter
eggs and he was wasting his time. He better go outside and
collect the eggs before they all turned rotten.
Dad said, "Fine. But I just want you to know,
that I hid 15 eggs outside. Each egg has a number on it, from 1
to 15. The number corresponds to a dollar amount, so the egg with
a 1 is worth a dollar, the one with a 15 on it is worth $15.00. I
am going to invite the neighbor kids to go look for the eggs and I'll
pay them instead."
My brother and I looked at each other and we were
out that door so fast to look for those stupid eggs. I know that
was my Dad's happiest Easter because we were outside looking for those
damn eggs for over two hours, while he sat on the porch smiling the
entire time. He had created a new tradition, one in which my
brother and I were happy to participate in for a few more years.